Yahrzeit Candles: Traditions and Meanings

Charity. Lighting of Praying candles in a temple.

Yahrzeit candles are one of the most profound symbols in Judaism, and a source of comfort during grief. Yahrzeit literally means “anniversary of death.” Lighting a Yahrzeit candle at sunset is a reminder of the light loved ones brought into our lives, and the love we continue to show them by honoring their memory. While these candles can be lit every week for Shiva during the mourning period, they are traditionally lit on the eve of the anniversary of a loved one’s passing and as a part of Yizkor services on important holidays.



Why Light Yahrzeit Candles at Sunset?

In Jewish tradition, the Yahrzeit candle is typically lit at sunset, marking the beginning of the Yahrzeit, which follows the Hebrew calendar. Since Jewish days begin at sundown, the candle should be lit the evening before the anniversary. This allows the candle to burn for the full 24 hours, symbolizing the enduring spirit of the deceased.

Yom Kippur

On the eve of Yom Kippur, the Day of Atonement, many families light a Yahrzeit candle at sunset. Yom Kippur is devoted to prayer, fasting, and reflection. Lighting the candle allows individuals to honor those who have passed during this holiest day on the Jewish calendar.

Shemini Atzeret

Shemini Atzeret, which follows the seven-day festival of Sukkot and closes out the year’s Torah readings with Simchat Torah, is another occasion to light a Yahrzeit candle. This day of assembly and prayer is a fitting time to remember the lives of those we’ve lost and to honor their legacy at the end of this festive season. 

Passover

During Passover, a Yahrzeit candle is traditionally lit on the eve of the last day of the holiday. As Passover symbolizes renewal and liberation, lighting the candle serves as a tribute to family members who can no longer join in the celebration.

Shavuot

The second day of Shavuot, a holiday celebrating the giving of the Torah at Mount Sinai, is also a time to light a Yahrzeit candle. The candle is lit at sundown, allowing families to honor their loved ones while reaffirming their connection to Jewish teachings.

Digital Yahrzeit Memorials and Calendars

In keeping with the evolving ways to memorialize loved ones, Hillside Memorial Park and Mortuary is pleased to offer families a range of digital Yahrzeit services. Families can receive email reminders before the anniversary of a loved one’s death, which includes a virtual plaque to commemorate the life of your loved one and a virtual yahrzeit candle, which can be displayed on your phone or any electronic device.

We also offer a complimentary 20-year calendar listing the dates of your loved one’s yahrzeit corresponding to the secular calendar. To request your Yahrzeit Calendar, please call our office at (800) 576-1994 or (310) 641-0707.